Many times, in our life, we would have thought that
we are put in the same situation again and again. For example, always ending up
with unavailable man/woman or cheating friends/partners, always working so hard
to earn money, etc. Facing the same type of situations or problems or people
doesn't mean universe/god/nature is punishing you. It just helps you to look at
yourself by giving the same scenarios until you face the situations, learn and
let go. For example, you try so hard to get money. It probably comes from your
belief that no pain, no gain, or money can’t be obtained easily. Another
example is ending up with unavailable woman or man. It’s because you yourself
are unavailable to love or fearing love or very needy for love. The man/woman
you meet just reflect the quality what you have inside. But you may be not
aware that you possess that quality. You are what you feel and what you think,
not what you speak. So observe the feeling within you. When you meet
unavailable person, turn inward. Look at the unavailability or needy behaviour
inside you. Accept it and let go. Change your belief, feelings and thoughts.
Then your world will suddenly change. You meet people who love you.
Hint: You give yourself of what you expect from
other (self-love, self-respect). You become the source of your own happiness.
Like attracts like. So now you meet people who love and respect you.
